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Wan Dong'er (circa 1887–1907) was a female figure in the late Qing Dynasty. She was born in Qinghe District, Huai'an City, Jiangsu Province, into a prominent local family. Her father was Wan Laotaiye, a well-known official whose handling of governmental affairs and social interactions often featured her accompanying him in a sedan chair, becoming a distinctive sight in Qinghe at the time.

From a young age, Wan Dong'er was intelligent, beautiful, cheerful, and courageous. She was deeply beloved by her elders. She possessed a high level of comprehension and empathetic qualities, able to listen quietly during her father’s official duties and social gatherings, demonstrating maturity akin to that of an adult. She learned skills related to managing affairs from an early age, gradually revealing her talent for administration. In traditional society, foot binding was considered an aesthetic standard for women, but she refused to bind her feet, showing her stubborn character. Additionally, she was passionate about reading; although reading was generally regarded as a male activity at that time, her father’s support enabled her to receive an education and acquire a certain level of cultural knowledge.

As an adult, Wan Dong'er’s management abilities became increasingly evident within her family. Encouraged by her father, she took over the management of the Wan residence from her mother. With her capable and just work style, she efficiently managed the family estate within a few years.

In 1897, at the age of 20, Wan Dong'er was arranged by her father to marry Zhou Shao’ang, the second son of the Zhou family from Shanyang County (now Huai'an District, Huai'an City, Jiangsu Province). From then on, she began overseeing household affairs at the Zhou residence. Known for her kindness, straightforwardness, and intelligence, she gained recognition within the family. She handled conflicts and mediated disputes skillfully, demonstrating excellent household management abilities. She often assisted her mother-in-law in resolving internal family issues, showcasing mature household management skills.

Her influence extended to the neighborhood, where she earned a certain reputation. She cared for her family’s happiness and was proactive and decisive when dealing with Zhou family matters, earning the respect of those around her. Her daughter, Zhou Enlai, was profoundly influenced by her mother’s role and developed a strong awareness of social issues during her childhood.

In the summer of 1907, at only 30 years old, Wan Dong'er passed away due to overwork. Her death caused sorrow among many family members and left an indelible memory for the local residents. In her limited life, she gained respect through her intelligence, resilience, and management skills, establishing a notable presence in her family and society.